10 Reasons Why Sex in a Relationship is Hotter Than a Random Hookup

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There's just something about knowing which side of the bed you'll sleep on, and the fact that you won't have to find your way home at 5 a.m. wearing stilettos, that makes sex with the guy you're seeing so damn good. And while casual sex can still be fun, there are some aspects of a sleeping with your S.O. that just beat random hookups, hands down. From getting it on to the morning after, here are the reasons why relationship sex is way better than a casual encounter.

1. Your Partner Actually Knows What You Like (and Don’t Like)

When having sex with someone who knows where you like to be touched—and the locations you do not want any hands or penises in or around—you don’t have to be on edge. Basically, you can put that sexual treasure hunt behind you.

2. It's Okay to Laugh When Things Get Weird

The two of you let things like queefing, charley horses, and strange 'O' faces roll off your back. You don't let self-consciousness become a speed bump on your ride to pleasure town (yes, we said it).

3. There's Implied Cuddling Afterward

That whole "Do we cuddle? Do I leave?" situation is pretty much non-existent, unless you're late for work. When you're dating the person you're hooking up with, sex comes with a side of cuddling—pretty much every time.

4. You're More Likely to Have an Orgasm

Don't just take our word for it; many women report that they aren't having orgasms from casual sex. Whether it’s because a partner cares more about making you feel good or that you feel more comfortable and connected, sex in a relationship makes it way easier to climax.

5. You’re Less Inhibited and More Likely to Try New Things

If you feel the urge to make a sex tape or maybe Fifty Shades of Grey has you craving a little kink, know that part of couplehood is letting your freak flag fly. And that sentiment carries over into your bedroom—or special BDSM dungeon, no judgment.

6. You Know Each Other's STD History

When you know what he's had or hasn't had going on below deck, you feel more in control of your sexual health, which is always a good thing. Plus, you're not left wondering if you should visit your gyno after you get it on.

7. It's Okay Feel All of the Feelings

When sex isn't the sole focus of your bond—meaning you actually have a relationship beyond the bedroom—you're free to let those mushy feelings flow. That's because you don't have to wonder if your partner reciprocates those feelings, which makes for an even more intimate encounter. Is it time to snuggle yet?

8. You Don't Have to Come Up with an Exit Strategy

See you later, six a.m. sneak out in heels and last night's bodycon dress. Feel free to sleep in as late as you like. There might even be breakfast in bed when you wake up. This perk is brought to you by relationship sex.

9. He Will Most Likely Call You Tomorrow

This feature pretty much comes standard with the relationship label. Being official means that he's definitely going to call you after you've spent the night together (or even just because you haven't spoken in a few hours).

10. There will be a Toothbrush Waiting for You

…and makeup remover and moisturizer. There's probably even a hot shower waiting for you with an attractive naked man in it. He comes bearing shampoo. Relationship sex wins again.